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I’ve decided to write a book. Can you believe that? I’d like to run a social experiment for the rest of this year and then turn my experience into a book.
In fact, the title of this post will likely be the title of my book.
We now live in a digital age that translates into a society where everyone is linked by 1-degree of separation. I’d like to find out if in fact our online friends would translate into the kind of friends you’d invite to your wedding or funeral.
For the next 6 months I am going to try and befriend as many people as possible, then cultivate those relationships into genuine friendships. At the end of that time I will go and visit my new friends for a couple of days each.
I assembled a list of things that friends do for each other and will try to accomplish as many of those as possible with my new friends. All the while I will share my experiences and determine what type of friend each person is and whether or not I would classify them as a “real” friend. Such as:
- borrow car, house, boat or plane
- drive/travel great distances for the sake of it
- argue and make up
- go to weddings/funerals
- talk about anything including uncomfortable subjects
- drive to or from hospitals, jails or anything in between
So where do I start this project?
Facebook sounds like the most logical place to me being it revolves around friends and friendship. So I created a Facebook fan page for Will you be my friend? If you think we’d possibly be good friends, let’s start by becoming Facebook friends. From there we can continue the conversation via my Twitter page, this blog, over email or the phone.
At the end of 6 months I will coordinate visiting the top 20-25 friends wherever they may live. If you know a sponsor, I’m accepting
I am not sure what to expect or exactly how this entire project is going to go, but I am sure interested in this new phenomenon and whether or not great, lasting friendships can be built online just as well as offline. I have sure met some really cool people via the Internet and when I met them in person there was a stronger connection than “just” the first time meeting someone.
What do you think about online friendship? Have you meet some online friends that turned out to be just as normal as your high school/college friend? Do you think the Internet makes friendship easier? Do you feel Internet friends lack things compared to your other friendships? Will you be my friend?
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I am already your friend, but this sounds like an interesting idea. I would hardly know anything about some of my friends if it wasn't for communications through posts and status updates. It will be cool to see this "friendship litmus test" move forward. Good luck!
I actually made a friend on Twitter last year, and was recently invited to her wedding, so it CAN happen!
Sounds like an interesting study Josh.
I think this is a cool project. I think the answer to your question is "yes" you can make friends online that actually become more. Look at you and I, we became friends online and have become business partners yet we have never physically met. You can include Allyn Hane and Brian Matson as well. The internet made this possible. This may have a cool factor of 10 as far as social experiments go.
@Brian, thanks for the support. Mind if I steal the "friendship litmus test"?
@Laura, I'll send you an email and ask more about it.
@Steve, I agree and feel it would be an interesting case study.
Gee Josh, I never thought about inviting anyone to my funeral. I always figured the family would stick an ad in the paper and those who were would show up
An interesting project and one where you may actually need several sponsors. I'm not sure whether many online friends would necessarily remain as friends in the real world as you see so many falling out over little arguments.
Still I wish you all the luck in the world with this project.
@Sire, travelling around could start to add up. I agree that online friends/acquaintances can be everywhere but to really build some tight friendships takes a lot more time and effort than a couple emails. It should be an interesting experiment.
Hey Josh, what a great idea. I know it will go over well.
It always seems that there are people that you meet online that you really never meet, yet you feel connected by a common bond. I'm not sure I know anyone at this point that I would invite to my wedding without feeling a little awkward about it, but that's just me.
I'll be looking forward to seeing your progress.
B
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If you have some travel plans to come somewhere around Pittsburgh I'd love to actually meet you sometime
I'd offer you up my couch, but since I have three kids who don't sleep, friends don't let friends go through that kind of torture! Sounds like an awesome idea & it will be very cool to see how it all turns out. If you need anything to help with making it happen just let me know.
@Chelle, I have never been to Pittsburgh (since being old enough to remember). As far as the couch, I'd also consider a tent
. I can't wait to see what happens with the whole idea.
I totally wanna be apart of this project
Hi Josh,
Sounds like an interesting experiment – let's just hope you don't meet any weirdos (that's what I'm always warning my daughter about
)
I'll be your friend – if you've got nothing against the English
@Neil, I'd love to be your friend. I have absolutely nothing against the English. Look forward to interacting.
Now this is interesting! Keep me updated- I've been interested in new media social experiments ever since Josh Harris' exploits. Looks like we're interested in a lot of the same stuff, similar ages, and equally quirky.
Keep me up to date!
Thanks for stopping by. I will have to check out more about Josh Harris, have any good links?
Yep, I recommend his movie, We Live In Public. I'm pretty sure it's on Netflix, otherwise I could mail you a copy of it.
Josh, how about an update?