http://www.joshwhitford.com/2008/03/08/how-to-deal-with-an-introverted-girlfriend/ Mon, 14 Nov 2011 18:05:54 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 http://www.joshwhitford.com/2008/03/08/how-to-deal-with-an-introverted-girlfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-6489 therealjosh Thu, 30 Sep 2010 17:11:21 +0000 http://www.joshwhitford.com/2008/03/08/how-to-deal-with-an-introverted-girlfriend/#comment-6489 I am glad Lindsay chimed in below, of course she would have some good insight into this issue. Hope that helps and be sure to give an update. I am glad Lindsay chimed in below, of course she would have some good insight into this issue. Hope that helps and be sure to give an update.

]]> http://www.joshwhitford.com/2008/03/08/how-to-deal-with-an-introverted-girlfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-6487 Lindsay Thu, 30 Sep 2010 02:32:05 +0000 http://www.joshwhitford.com/2008/03/08/how-to-deal-with-an-introverted-girlfriend/#comment-6487 Hey there, I'm Josh's girlfriend. Yep, THE girlfriend. James, I would recommend telling her ahead of time that you want to talk and set up a specific time, like hours or days in advance. That will give her time to think about what she wants to say. And be specific about what you want to talk about and what you want her feedback on. Hey there, I'm Josh's girlfriend. Yep, THE girlfriend. James, I would recommend telling her ahead of time that you want to talk and set up a specific time, like hours or days in advance. That will give her time to think about what she wants to say. And be specific about what you want to talk about and what you want her feedback on.

]]> http://www.joshwhitford.com/2008/03/08/how-to-deal-with-an-introverted-girlfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-6483 James Tue, 28 Sep 2010 19:56:29 +0000 http://www.joshwhitford.com/2008/03/08/how-to-deal-with-an-introverted-girlfriend/#comment-6483 Hey Josh, I was wondering if you had any tips about getting her to talk to me? I just find that whenever I bring up any kind of issue, she'll get really angry/sad/annoyed and just wants me to leave her alone.. She'll talk to me again after a bit and apologize, but the issue is never really resolved.. :( Hey Josh, I was wondering if you had any tips about getting her to talk to me? I just find that whenever I bring up any kind of issue, she'll get really angry/sad/annoyed and just wants me to leave her alone.. She'll talk to me again after a bit and apologize, but the issue is never really resolved..

]]> http://www.joshwhitford.com/2008/03/08/how-to-deal-with-an-introverted-girlfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-6475 therealjosh Thu, 23 Sep 2010 20:17:24 +0000 http://www.joshwhitford.com/2008/03/08/how-to-deal-with-an-introverted-girlfriend/#comment-6475 Sure send her the link to the post and tell her you now understand. Then take a few minutes to listen to what she has to say and genuinely care :) Sure send her the link to the post and tell her you now understand. Then take a few minutes to listen to what she has to say and genuinely care

]]> http://www.joshwhitford.com/2008/03/08/how-to-deal-with-an-introverted-girlfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-6473 john Wed, 22 Sep 2010 23:12:15 +0000 http://www.joshwhitford.com/2008/03/08/how-to-deal-with-an-introverted-girlfriend/#comment-6473 What a fantastic, concise little article on introverted girlfriends! You are clearly a generous and open person. I am afraid I may have read this too late:( My introverted gf has just left me saying she thinks I am wonderful but 'needs to be alone' and 'can't be involved anymore'. I'm such a loud, opinionated chatterbox I think I should have listened to her better and let her set the pace more.. I don't know what to do really. I don't suppose you have any tips do you? :) What a fantastic, concise little article on introverted girlfriends! You are clearly a generous and open person. I am afraid I may have read this too late:( My introverted gf has just left me saying she thinks I am wonderful but 'needs to be alone' and 'can't be involved anymore'. I'm such a loud, opinionated chatterbox I think I should have listened to her better and let her set the pace more.. I don't know what to do really. I don't suppose you have any tips do you?

]]> http://www.joshwhitford.com/2008/03/08/how-to-deal-with-an-introverted-girlfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-6444 Josh Fri, 06 Aug 2010 07:32:04 +0000 http://www.joshwhitford.com/2008/03/08/how-to-deal-with-an-introverted-girlfriend/#comment-6444 I am glad it helps. I know when I slow down to think about things it usually make sense. The biggest thing to remember is to take the time to ask them what they are thinking/feeling and be sure to listen, they'll usually tell you whats up. I am glad it helps. I know when I slow down to think about things it usually make sense. The biggest thing to remember is to take the time to ask them what they are thinking/feeling and be sure to listen, they'll usually tell you whats up.

]]> http://www.joshwhitford.com/2008/03/08/how-to-deal-with-an-introverted-girlfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-6443 Wentworth Thu, 05 Aug 2010 18:01:49 +0000 http://www.joshwhitford.com/2008/03/08/how-to-deal-with-an-introverted-girlfriend/#comment-6443 Well you know last night i got a lil upset because i was facing some challenges at work and then i was talking to my Fiance and he wasn't saying much and i was getting ticked off and ah mean like the author of this article im an extreme extrovert people feed from my energy and i feed from people's energy, i was getting a lil pissed and you know now reading this i feel bad because i fell in Love with the quiet side of her and this is a refresher thank you so much..... and we getting married soon so this is like the ultimate guide right now... i wish i ocould pay you for this thank you so much.... Well you know last night i got a lil upset because i was facing some challenges at work and then i was talking to my Fiance and he wasn't saying much and i was getting ticked off and ah mean like the author of this article im an extreme extrovert people feed from my energy and i feed from people's energy, i was getting a lil pissed and you know now reading this i feel bad because i fell in Love with the quiet side of her and this is a refresher thank you so much….. and we getting married soon so this is like the ultimate guide right now… i wish i ocould pay you for this thank you so much….

]]> http://www.joshwhitford.com/2008/03/08/how-to-deal-with-an-introverted-girlfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-6381 Josh Wed, 26 May 2010 10:51:07 +0000 http://www.joshwhitford.com/2008/03/08/how-to-deal-with-an-introverted-girlfriend/#comment-6381 @Stephanie, Thank you for stopping by. Everyday is an experience that's for sure. @Stephanie, Thank you for stopping by. Everyday is an experience that's for sure.

]]> http://www.joshwhitford.com/2008/03/08/how-to-deal-with-an-introverted-girlfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-6379 Stephanie Tue, 25 May 2010 11:28:12 +0000 http://www.joshwhitford.com/2008/03/08/how-to-deal-with-an-introverted-girlfriend/#comment-6379 As an introverted lady, you are my new hero. Excellent, excellent article. As an introverted lady, you are my new hero. Excellent, excellent article.

]]> http://www.joshwhitford.com/2008/03/08/how-to-deal-with-an-introverted-girlfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-6340 Joshua C Fri, 23 Apr 2010 04:04:55 +0000 http://www.joshwhitford.com/2008/03/08/how-to-deal-with-an-introverted-girlfriend/#comment-6340 This post literally saved my fledgling romance with a bright and confident introvert who had never gotten close to anyone before. We both read it and have used all these techniques to build an intimate and functional relationship and she is now not only my girlfriend, but my best friend. It was touch and go before I read this and learned how to care for her. This post literally saved my fledgling romance with a bright and confident introvert who had never gotten close to anyone before. We both read it and have used all these techniques to build an intimate and functional relationship and she is now not only my girlfriend, but my best friend. It was touch and go before I read this and learned how to care for her.

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